Disclosure.

It's going to be a short post.  For reasons that are obvious.  But we've finally had some disclosure of abuse.  Over hearing some of the things that her little siblings are struggling with helped her see that abuse is affecting them, and she can help them by making sure people know what they went through. She said "if I say what happened to them will it make it easier for them"

I let her know that if she told us what had happened to her it would help us understand her better too - she wasn't willing to go that next step just yet!